For the Bum fun lovers!


Gareth Johnson
24 February 2024

Are you like me and love a bit of anal action? Well, then this article might just be for you. At the office, I work for, they asked me for a few tips on how you can get some extra pleasure from anal fun, and we are not just talking about a gay dildo and for those that love it a bottle of poppers! I am aiming to provide some tips and suggestions that will elevate your experience to the next level. So here goes.

Get the essentials right!

Before you start inserting stuff up your bum, I suggest you make sure you have the right essentials. A good anal lube does wonders for longer enjoyment. We would recommend a hybrid lube which is a combination of water-based and silicone lube. This will last longer and doesn’t damage your toy. It also means you do not have to keep re-applying which can be annoying when you are mid-session. For some a good bottle of room aromas can help the proceeding as well. Lastly, we recommend that you have an anal douche, this will allow you to fully commit to the play without the worry of things getting messy.

Precision is king!

Now that the basics are covered, we can get down to the good stuff. We often hear that bigger is better and don’t get me wrong, being served by a big manhood or toy is an amazing feeling but there are some more other ways to get an intense experience. For these situations precision is king! One of the most sensitive areas in your bum is the P-spot, it sits a few inches into your bum on the side of your manhood. It has many nerve endings that provide an intense sensation which when stimulated communicates feel-good vibes to your brain. A great way to satisfy yourself is to use a gay prostate massager and when you hit the P-spot turn on the vibrations. Most of the time you will not make it to the maximum setting, trust me! What is great is that you can do this hands-free and use a masturbator to make the party complete.

Outdoor anal fun!

Well, this one was new to me, but we have had several customers entertaining us with some fun stories about how they like to feel naughty when not at home. The kick or kink they are referring to is wearing an anal butt plug outdoors. We have various accounts of customers doing this whilst shopping, travelling or at the gym. The fact that they have a plug in them and enjoy extra sensation whilst doing day-to-day stuff seems to give them a kick. Brian from Reading said,” I even take a different bus to town because this particular route has more speed bumps and twists and turns that make it more enjoyable, I just sit there having a great time and no one is aware”. This is certainly something I am going to try.

Choose quality!

To get the best result when using anal toys, we do suggest you select more premium products. In the end, they are better value as they last longer. They are made from superior material, feel better and should not have that plastic sex toy smell that some can have. Another reason to invest in premium products is that they often have more and better functionality. We have some rotating and vibrating toys that have many great settings. Getting to the highest level can be a real challenge and not everybody can handle it. The journey to getting there though is delicious and I am speaking from experience.

Practice makes perfect.

I am not sure where you are in your anal play journey, but it might take a while before you find the key to what works best for you. From dildos, massagers, vibes, plugs, and inflatables to anal balls. There are so many different ways to please yourself, that it is a bit of trial and error to discover what works best for you. Personally I am a combo fan, which for me means to have a hands-free anal toy in combination with a manhood tool.

Hopefully, this gives you some inspiration to start your anal play journey or to take it to the next level. Whatever it is, I hope you enjoy it.

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With love,
Team esmale.


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